{"id":3325,"date":"2025-01-16T16:31:59","date_gmt":"2025-01-16T15:31:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/iyi-arkadasliklar-icin-9-ipucu\/"},"modified":"2025-09-21T16:57:37","modified_gmt":"2025-09-21T14:57:37","slug":"iyi-arkadasliklar-icin-9-ipucu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/iyi-arkadasliklar-icin-9-ipucu\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130yi arkada\u015fl\u0131klar i\u00e7in 9 ipucu"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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\u201cE\u011fer iyi arka\u00adda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z<\/strong> var\u00adsa, ayna\u00adya<\/strong>ihti\u00adyac\u0131n\u0131z yok\u00adtur.\u201d Bir keresin\u00adde bir ban\u00adyo\u00add\u00ada\u00adki ayn\u00adan\u0131n \u00fczerinde oku\u00admu\u015f\u00adtum. Bence bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn ger\u00ad\u00e7ek\u00adten bir anlam\u0131 var. \u0130\u015fte bu y\u00fcz\u00adden her\u00adke\u00adsin ken\u00addi\u00adni g\u00f6r\u00admek i\u00e7in ayna\u00adya ihti\u00adya\u00e7 duy\u00adma\u00admas\u0131n\u0131 dili\u00adyo\u00adrum. Ka\u00e7 tane yak\u0131n arka\u00adda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z oldu\u011funu sora\u00adbi\u00adlir miy\u00adim? Bun\u00adun\u00adla par\u00adti\u00adye gide\u00adbil\u00adece\u011fi\u00adniz arka\u00adda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131\u00adz\u0131 de\u011fil, en ki\u015fi\u00adsel deney\u00adim\u00adler\u00adini\u00adzi ve en derin duy\u00adgu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00adce\u00adler\u00adini\u00adzi payla\u015f\u00adt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fi\u00adle\u00adri kas\u00adt\u00adedi\u00adyo\u00adrum. Psi\u00adko\u00adter\u00ada\u00adpist Wolf\u00adgang Kr\u00fc\u00adger, ide\u00adal ola\u00adrak bu \u00fc\u00e7 ki\u015fi<\/strong> i\u00e7in ge\u00e7er\u00adli\u00addir diyor. Bu yak\u0131n arka\u00adda\u015flar ayn\u0131 zaman\u00adda haya\u00adta dair kon\u00adu\u015f\u00adma ve olaylar\u0131 ird\u00adele\u00adme yet\u00adki\u00adsi\u00adne de sahiptir. Ayr\u0131\u00adca size \u201ck\u00f6r nok\u00adtalar\u0131\u201d, yani ken\u00addi ki\u015fi\u00adli\u011fi\u00adniz\u00adde giz\u00adli kal\u00adan \u015fey\u00adle\u00adri de g\u00f6s\u00adter\u00adir\u00adler. Bu ara\u00adda, bu geri bil\u00addi\u00adrim ken\u00addi ki\u015fi\u00adli\u011fi\u00adniz\u00adde b\u00fcy\u00fc\u00adme\u00adni\u00adze ve daha da geli\u015f\u00adme\u00adni\u00adze yar\u00add\u0131mc\u0131 olur. <\/p>\n\n

Ne yaz\u0131k ki bu t\u00fcr arka\u00adda\u015fla\u00adra \u00e7ok nadir rast\u00adlan\u0131r. Peki ama bu yak\u0131n arka\u00adda\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131, iyi g\u00fcn\u00adde k\u00f6t\u00fc<\/strong> g\u00fcn\u00adde bir\u00adlik\u00adte ola\u00adbil\u00adece\u011fi\u00adniz ve key\u00adfi\u00adniz yerin\u00adde olma\u00add\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u00adda bile size kat\u00adla\u00adnan bu dost\u00adlar\u0131 nas\u0131l edi\u00adne\u00adbi\u00adlir\u00adsi\u00adniz? Yak\u0131n arka\u00adda\u015flar bir \u015fans \u00fcr\u00fc\u00adn\u00fc de\u011fil\u00addir, ayn\u0131 zaman\u00adda dav\u00adran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u00adla da \u00e7ok ilgil\u00adidir. \u0130\u015fte iyi arka\u00adda\u015fl\u0131klar i\u00e7in 9 ipu\u00adcu: <\/p>\n\n

1) Se\u00e7\u00adti\u011fi\u00adniz ki\u015fi\u00adle\u00adrin<\/strong> haya\u00adt\u0131n\u0131\u00adza bak\u00admas\u0131\u00adna<\/strong> izin ver\u00adi\u00adyor musunuz? O ki\u015fi\u00adye i\u00e7i\u00adni\u00adzi a\u00e7a\u00adbi\u00adli\u00adyor musunuz? \u0130lk ad\u0131m\u0131 atmak ve i\u00e7sel d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00adce\u00adler\u00adini\u00adzi payla\u015f\u00admak ger\u00ad\u00e7ek\u00adten cesur\u00adca. \u00d6rne\u011fin, \u015fu anda pek iyi dur\u00adum\u00adda de\u011fil\u00adse\u00adniz, her \u015fey yolun\u00addaym\u0131\u015f gibi davr\u00adan\u00admay\u0131n, bir \u015fey\u00adle\u00adrin yan\u00adl\u0131\u015f git\u00adti\u011fi\u00adni d\u00fcr\u00fcs\u00adt\u00ad\u00e7e kabul edin. Deney\u00adim\u00adler g\u00f6s\u00adter\u00admi\u015f\u00adtir ki bu, kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u00adda\u00adki ki\u015fi\u00adnin de yava\u015f yava\u015f a\u00e7\u0131l\u00admas\u0131\u00adna ve size ken\u00addisin\u00adden bah\u00adset\u00adme\u00adsi\u00adne yar\u00add\u0131mc\u0131 olm\u00adakt\u00ada\u00add\u0131r. <\/p>\n\n

2) Baz\u0131 arka\u00adda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131\u00adza haya\u00adt\u0131n\u0131z\u00adla ilgi\u00adli kon\u00adu\u015f\u00adma <\/strong>yet\u00adki\u00adsi ver\u00adi\u00adyor musunuz? Ba\u015f\u00adka bir dey\u00adi\u015f\u00adle, sizi ele\u015f\u00adtir\u00admele\u00adri\u00adne ve eylem\u00adler\u00adini\u00adzi sor\u00adgu\u00adla\u00admalar\u0131\u00adna izin ver\u00adi\u00adyor musunuz? Bu bazen \u00e7ok can yaka\u00adbi\u00adlir ama ger\u00ad\u00e7ek\u00adten fay\u00add\u00adal\u0131\u00add\u0131r. Bu, her \u015feyi uygu\u00adla\u00adman\u0131z gerek\u00adti\u011fi anlam\u0131\u00adna gel\u00admez, ancak en az\u0131n\u00addan iyi \u015fey\u00adle\u00adri inc\u00adele\u00adme\u00adli ve sakla\u00admal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z (bu ara\u00adda bu da \u0130nc\u00adil\u2019d\u00aden bir bil\u00adge\u00adlik par\u00ad\u00e7as\u0131\u00add\u0131r<\/a>). <\/p>\n\n

3) Baz\u0131 arka\u00adda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131\u00adza d\u00fcr\u00fcst fikir\u00adle\u00adri\u00adni<\/strong> soruyor musunuz ve size ne s\u00f6y\u00adleye\u00adce\u011fi\u00adni\u00adzi s\u00f6y\u00adle\u00adme\u00adse\u00adler bile bun\u00adun i\u00e7in min\u00adnet\u00adtar m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n\n

4) Di\u011fer ki\u015fi i\u00e7in feda\u00adkar\u00adl\u0131k yap\u00adma\u00adya<\/strong> ve yar\u00add\u0131m\u0131n\u0131\u00adza ihti\u00adya\u00e7 duy\u00addu\u011fun\u00adda onun yan\u0131n\u00adda olma\u00adya haz\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/p>\n\n

5) Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131z\u00adda\u00adki ki\u015fi\u00adyle ger\u00ad\u00e7ek\u00adten ilgi\u00adle\u00adni\u00adyor <\/strong>musunuz ve onu din\u00adli\u00adyor<\/strong> musunuz? \u0130tir\u00adaf etme\u00adliy\u00adim ki: Din\u00adle\u00admek benim i\u00e7in gen\u00adel\u00adlik\u00adle o kadar kolay de\u011fil\u00addir. <\/p>\n\n

6) Erkek\/k\u0131z arka\u00adda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z sizi incit\u00admi\u015f\u00adse <\/strong>onu affet\u00admeye iste\u00adkli misi\u00adniz?<\/p>\n\n

7) Hata yap\u00adt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u00adda ken\u00addi\u00adniz\u00adden af<\/strong> dili\u00adyor musunuz yoksa hat\u00ada\u00adlar\u0131n\u0131\u00adz\u0131 \u00f6rt\u00adbas etmeye mi \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor\u00adsunuz? Af dile\u00admek bizim i\u00e7in gen\u00adel\u00adlik\u00adle kolay de\u011fil\u00addir, ancak bunu yap\u00adt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u00adda tac\u0131m\u0131z\u00addan bir san\u00adtim kay\u00adbet\u00adme\u00addi\u011fi\u00admi\u00adzi, aksine faz\u00adl\u00ada\u00addan bir san\u00adtim kazan\u00add\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131\u00adz\u0131 fark ede\u00adriz.
Bu ara\u00adda: Haya\u00adt\u0131n\u0131z\u00adda \u0130sa\u2019n\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131\u015flay\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 deney\u00adim\u00adle\u00addiy\u00adsen\u00adiz, ba\u015f\u00adkalar\u0131n\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131\u015fla\u00adman\u0131z da daha kolay ola\u00adcak\u00adt\u0131r ve hari\u00adka olan \u015fey \u015fudur: E\u011fer ister\u00adse\u00adniz \u0130sa size yar\u00add\u0131m ede\u00adcek\u00adtir.<\/p>\n\n

8) S\u0131r\u00adt\u0131n\u0131z\u00adda\u00adki g\u00f6m\u00adle\u011fi<\/strong> ba\u015f\u00adkalar\u0131y\u00adla payla\u015f\u00adma\u00adya haz\u0131r m\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z yoksa onlar sade\u00adce sizin eskit\u00adti\u011fi\u00adniz g\u00f6m\u00adle\u00adkle\u00adri<\/strong> mi al\u0131yorlar? Ba\u015f\u00adka bir dey\u00adi\u015f\u00adle: c\u00f6mert\u00adlik <\/strong>ger\u00ad\u00e7ek dost\u00adlu\u011fun bir i\u015fa\u00adret\u00adidir. <\/p>\n\n

9) Ger\u00ad\u00e7ek\u00adten iyi arka\u00adda\u015fl\u0131kla\u00adra giden yol\u00adda size yar\u00add\u0131mc\u0131 ola\u00adcak daha pek \u00e7ok \u015fey var\u00add\u0131r. Ancak en \u00f6nem\u00adli \u015fey \u015fudur: ken\u00addi\u00adniz en iyi arka\u00adda\u015f olma\u00adya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n. Bu konu\u00adda iyi \u015fans\u00adlar! <\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cE\u011fer iyi arka\u00adda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z var\u00adsa, ayna\u00adyaihti\u00adyac\u0131n\u0131z yok\u00adtur.\u201d Bir keresin\u00adde bir ban\u00adyo\u00add\u00ada\u00adki ayn\u00adan\u0131n \u00fczerinde oku\u00admu\u015f\u00adtum. Bence bu s\u00f6z\u00fcn ger\u00ad\u00e7ek\u00adten bir anlam\u0131 var. \u0130\u015fte bu y\u00fcz\u00adden her\u00adke\u00adsin ken\u00addi\u00adni g\u00f6r\u00admek i\u00e7in ayna\u00adya ihti\u00adya\u00e7 duy\u00adma\u00admas\u0131n\u0131 dili\u00adyo\u00adrum. Ka\u00e7 tane yak\u0131n arka\u00adda\u015f\u0131n\u0131z oldu\u011funu sora\u00adbi\u00adlir miy\u00adim? Bun\u00adun\u00adla par\u00adti\u00adye gide\u00adbil\u00adece\u011fi\u00adniz arka\u00adda\u015flar\u0131n\u0131\u00adz\u0131 de\u011fil, en ki\u015fi\u00adsel deney\u00adim\u00adler\u00adini\u00adzi ve en derin duy\u00adgu ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00adce\u00adler\u00adini\u00adzi payla\u015f\u00adt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z ki\u015fi\u00adle\u00adri kas\u00adt\u00adedi\u00adyo\u00adrum. [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2171,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[39],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3325","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog-yazisi"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3325","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3325"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3325\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3327,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3325\/revisions\/3327"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2171"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3325"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3325"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3325"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}