{"id":3307,"date":"2025-01-16T16:29:05","date_gmt":"2025-01-16T15:29:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/ask-bir-karar-midir\/"},"modified":"2025-09-21T16:57:35","modified_gmt":"2025-09-21T14:57:35","slug":"ask-bir-karar-midir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/ask-bir-karar-midir\/","title":{"rendered":"A\u015fk bir karar m\u0131d\u0131r?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Bu sor\u00adun\u00adun cev\u00ada\u00adb\u0131 net bir \u201cevet\u201d. Hem evet hem hay\u0131r. Her \u015fey han\u00adgi sev\u00adgi t\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00adden bah\u00adset\u00adti\u011fi\u00admi\u00adze ba\u011fl\u0131. Bilim ins\u00adan\u00adlar\u0131 14 t\u00fcr a\u015fk oldu\u011funu ke\u015f\u00adfet\u00adti\u00adler. Bun\u00adlar\u00addan biri \u201cEros\u201d. Bu t\u00fcr\u00adde miden\u00adiz\u00adde kele\u00adbe\u00adkler u\u00e7u\u015fur ve b\u00fcy\u00fck mik\u00adtar\u00adda <g id=\"gid_0\">mut\u00adlu\u00adluk hor\u00admo\u00adnu<\/g> sal\u00adg\u0131lar\u00ads\u0131n\u0131z. Ken\u00addi\u00adni\u00adzi \u00e7eki\u00adci his\u00adset\u00adti\u011fi\u00adniz \u00f6zel bir ki\u015fi\u00adyle tan\u0131\u015f\u00adt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u00adda bunu hisse\u00adder\u00adsi\u00adniz. G\u00f6z\u00adler\u00adiniz bulu\u015f\u00adtu\u011fun\u00adda hava \u00e7at\u0131r\u00addar. Her <g id=\"gid_1\">dokun\u00adu\u015f<\/g> k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir <g id=\"gid_2\">elek\u00adtrik \u015foku<\/g> gibi gelir ve an\u0131s\u0131 uzun s\u00fcre haf\u0131\u00adzan\u0131z\u00adda kal\u0131r. Ancak a\u015fk\u0131n bu t\u00fcr\u00fc\u00adn\u00fcn bir kar\u00adar\u00adla pek ilgi\u00adsi yok\u00adtur. Elbet\u00adte o ki\u015fi\u00adyle m\u00fcm\u00adk\u00fcn oldu\u011fun\u00adca s\u0131k g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00admek ya da yak\u0131n\u00adl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ara\u00admak kar\u00adar\u0131 hari\u00e7 ; )          <\/p>\n\n<p>Bu ki\u015fi\u00adyle s\u0131k\u0131 bir dost\u00adluk ikin\u00adci t\u00fcr a\u015fk\u0131 tan\u0131m\u00adlar: \u201cStor\u00adge\u201d. Bu t\u00fcr\u00fcn daha \u00e7ok bir kar\u00adar\u00adla ilgi\u00adsi var\u00add\u0131r. Bir arka\u00adda\u015fl\u0131k\u00adta, her iki ki\u015fi de bir\u00adlik\u00adte <g id=\"gid_0\">zaman<\/g> ge\u00e7ir\u00admeye, don\u00addur\u00admay\u0131, \u00e7iko\u00adla\u00adtay\u0131 ve hat\u00adta <g id=\"gid_1\">haya\u00adt\u0131<\/g> payla\u015f\u00adma\u00adya karar ver\u00adir. Bir\u00adlik\u00adte <g id=\"gid_2\">maceralara<\/g> at\u0131l\u0131rlar ya da en az\u0131n\u00addan sine\u00adma\u00adda bir\u00adlik\u00adte izler\u00adler. Ancak bu derin dost\u00adlu\u00adklar ne yaz\u0131k ki g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00adde nadir hale gel\u00addi. B\u00f6yle bir arka\u00adda\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ney\u00adin yarat\u00adt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 veya nas\u0131l elde ede\u00adce\u011fi\u00adni\u00adzi bil\u00admek ister misi\u00adniz? <g id=\"gid_3\">Burad\u00adan \u00f6\u011fre\u00adne\u00adbi\u00adlir\u00adsi\u00adniz<\/g>.     <\/p>\n\n<p>Ancak sev\u00adgi\u00adnin \u00e7ok daha derin bir bi\u00e7i\u00admi var\u00add\u0131r ve temel\u00adle\u00adri derin bir kara\u00adra dayan\u0131r: Yani, ba\u015f\u00adka bir ki\u015fiyi hi\u00e7\u00adbir kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131k bekle\u00adme\u00adden <strong>tama\u00admen \u00f6zver\u00adi\u00adli<\/strong> ve fedak\u00e2r\u00adca sev\u00admek. Evet, hat\u00adta \u00e7ok daha faz\u00adlas\u0131: deza\u00advan\u00adta\u00adjlar\u0131 olsa bile ken\u00addi\u00adni onun i\u00e7in feda etmek. Bu sev\u00adgi bi\u00e7i\u00admi\u00adnin ad\u0131 \u201caga\u00adpe \u201cdir. Ku\u015f\u00adkusuz: Bu tam ola\u00adrak benim g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc yan\u0131m de\u011fil. Biri\u00adni b\u00f6yle sev\u00admek ve kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u00adda hi\u00e7\u00adbir \u015fey alma\u00adsam bile ona tekrar tekrar yat\u0131r\u0131m yap\u00admak? D\u00fcr\u00fcst olal\u0131m: hepi\u00admiz kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u00adda bir \u015fey\u00adler bekle\u00admi\u00adyor muyuz? Ve e\u011fer bu sade\u00adce bir \u201cBen de seni sevi\u00adyo\u00adrum\u201d ise? O zaman kim\u00adse bunu yeri\u00adne geti\u00adre\u00admeye\u00adcek gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor\u00adsa bu sev\u00adgi bi\u00e7i\u00admi neden var? \u00c7\u00fcn\u00adk\u00fc bu sev\u00adgiyi \u00f6rne\u00adkley\u00aden biri var. Ve bu ki\u015fi bize ken\u00addi\u00adle\u00adri gibi nas\u0131l seve\u00adbil\u00adece\u011fi\u00admi\u00adzin <g id=\"gid_1\">s\u0131r\u00adr\u0131n\u0131<\/g> g\u00f6s\u00adte\u00adri\u00adyor.<g id=\"gid_2\">\u201c\u015eah\u00adsen Sev\u00adgi<\/g>\u201d ba\u015fl\u0131kl\u0131 blog yaz\u0131s\u0131n\u00adda bu ki\u015fi ve ard\u0131nda\u00adki b\u00fcy\u00fck s\u0131r hak\u00adk\u0131n\u00adda daha faz\u00adla bil\u00adgi edi\u00adne\u00adbi\u00adlir\u00adsi\u00adniz.          <\/p>\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bu sor\u00adun\u00adun cev\u00ada\u00adb\u0131 net bir \u201cevet\u201d. Hem evet hem hay\u0131r. Her \u015fey han\u00adgi sev\u00adgi t\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00adden bah\u00adset\u00adti\u011fi\u00admi\u00adze ba\u011fl\u0131. Bilim ins\u00adan\u00adlar\u0131 14 t\u00fcr a\u015fk oldu\u011funu ke\u015f\u00adfet\u00adti\u00adler. Bun\u00adlar\u00addan biri \u201cEros\u201d. Bu t\u00fcr\u00adde miden\u00adiz\u00adde kele\u00adbe\u00adkler u\u00e7u\u015fur ve b\u00fcy\u00fck mik\u00adtar\u00adda mut\u00adlu\u00adluk hor\u00admo\u00adnu sal\u00adg\u0131lar\u00ads\u0131n\u0131z. Ken\u00addi\u00adni\u00adzi \u00e7eki\u00adci his\u00adset\u00adti\u011fi\u00adniz \u00f6zel bir ki\u015fi\u00adyle tan\u0131\u015f\u00adt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u00adda bunu hisse\u00adder\u00adsi\u00adniz. G\u00f6z\u00adler\u00adiniz bulu\u015f\u00adtu\u011fun\u00adda hava \u00e7at\u0131r\u00addar. Her dokun\u00adu\u015f k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[39],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3307","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-blog-yazisi"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3307","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3307"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3307\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3308,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3307\/revisions\/3308"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3307"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3307"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3307"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}