{"id":5114,"date":"2025-01-16T16:29:05","date_gmt":"2025-01-16T15:29:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/czy-milosc-to-decyzja\/"},"modified":"2026-04-15T12:16:59","modified_gmt":"2026-04-15T10:16:59","slug":"czy-milosc-to-decyzja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/pl\/czy-milosc-to-decyzja\/","title":{"rendered":"Czy mi\u0142o\u015b\u0107 to decyzja?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Odpo\u00adwie\u00add\u017a na to pyta\u00adnie brz\u00admi jed\u00adnoz\u00adnacz\u00adnie \u201ctak\u201d. Tak i nie. Wszyst\u00adko zale\u017cy od tego, o jakiej for\u00admie mi\u0142o\u015bci m\u00f3wi\u00admy. Nau\u00adkow\u00adcy odkry\u00adli, \u017ce ist\u00adnie\u00adje 14 rod\u00adza\u00adj\u00f3w mi\u0142o\u015bci. Jed\u00adnym z nich jest \u201cEros\u201d. Ten typ wywo\u0142u\u00adje motyle w brzu\u00adchu i uwal\u00adnia ogrom\u00adne ilo\u015bci <strong>hor\u00admon\u00f3w szc\u00adz\u0119\u015bcia<\/strong>. Czu\u00adjesz to, gdy spo\u00adty\u00adka\u00adsz wyj\u0105t\u00adko\u00adw\u0105 oso\u00adb\u0119, do kt\u00f3\u00adrej czu\u00adjesz poci\u0105g. Kie\u00addy was\u00adze oczy si\u0119 spo\u00adty\u00adka\u00adj\u0105, powie\u00adtrze a\u017c trzeszc\u00adzy. Ka\u017c\u00addy <strong>dotyk<\/strong> jest jak ma\u0142y <strong>wstrz\u0105s<\/strong> elek\u00adtrycz\u00adny, kt\u00f3\u00adre\u00adgo wspom\u00adni\u00ade\u00adnie pozosta\u00adje na d\u0142u\u00adgo. Ale ta for\u00adma mi\u0142o\u015bci ma mniej wsp\u00f3l\u00adn\u00adego z decyz\u00adj\u0105. Z wyj\u0105t\u00adkiem, oczy\u00adwi\u015bcie, decyz\u00adji o ch\u0119ci spo\u00adty\u00adka\u00adnia si\u0119 z t\u0105 oso\u00adb\u0105 tak cz\u0119s\u00adto, jak to mo\u017c\u00adli\u00adwe lub szu\u00adka\u00adnia jej blis\u00adko\u015bci ; )          <\/p>\n\n<p>Sil\u00adna przy\u00adja\u017a\u0144 z t\u0105 oso\u00adb\u0105 opi\u00adsu\u00adje dru\u00adgi typ mi\u0142o\u015bci: \u201cStor\u00adge\u201d. Ten typ ma wi\u0119cej wsp\u00f3l\u00adn\u00adego z decyz\u00adj\u0105. W przy\u00adja\u017a\u00adni obie oso\u00adby decy\u00addu\u00adj\u0105 si\u0119 sp\u0119d\u00adza\u0107 razem <strong>czas<\/strong>, dziel\u00adi\u0107 si\u0119 loda\u00admi, cze\u00adko\u00adla\u00add\u0105, a nawet <strong>\u017cyciem<\/strong>. Razem prze\u017cy\u00adwa\u00adj\u0105 <strong>przy\u00adgo\u00addy<\/strong> lub przy\u00adnajm\u00adniej ogl\u0105\u00adda\u00adj\u0105 je razem w kinie. Ale te g\u0142\u0119\u00adbo\u00adkie przy\u00adja\u017a\u00adnie sta\u0142y si\u0119 nies\u00adte\u00adty rzad\u00adko\u015bci\u0105 w nas\u00adzych cza\u00adsach. Czy chcia\u0142\u00adby\u015b wied\u00adzie\u0107, co spra\u00adwia, \u017ce taka przy\u00adja\u017a\u0144 ist\u00adnie\u00adje lub jak j\u0105 zdo\u00adby\u0107? <a href=\"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/pl\/9-wskazowek-dotyczacych-dobrych-przyjazni\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"2167\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Dowiedz si\u0119 tutaj<\/a>.     <\/p>\n\n<p>Ist\u00adnie\u00adje jed\u00adnak znacz\u00adnie g\u0142\u0119bs\u00adza for\u00adma mi\u0142o\u015bci, kt\u00f3\u00adrej fun\u00adda\u00admen\u00adty s\u0105 g\u0142\u0119\u00adbo\u00adko opar\u00adte na decyz\u00adji: Mia\u00adno\u00adwi\u00adcie, kocha\u0107 dru\u00adg\u0105 oso\u00adb\u0119 <strong>ca\u0142\u00adko\u00adwi\u00adcie odda\u00adnie<\/strong> i bezin\u00adte\u00adre\u00adsow\u00adnie, nie ocze\u00adku\u00adj\u0105c nic\u00adze\u00adgo w zami\u00adan. Tak, nawet znacz\u00adnie wi\u0119cej: po\u015b\u00adwi\u0119ci\u0107 si\u0119 dla niej, nawet je\u015b\u00adli poci\u0105\u00adga to za sob\u0105 nie\u00addo\u00adgod\u00adno\u015bci. Nazwa tej for\u00admy mi\u0142o\u015bci to \u201caga\u00adpe\u201d. Trze\u00adba przyz\u00adna\u0107: Nie jest to do ko\u0144\u00adca moja moc\u00adna stro\u00adna. Kocha\u0107 kogo\u015b tak po pro\u00ads\u00adtu i inwes\u00adt\u00adowa\u0107 w nie\u00adgo wci\u0105\u017c na nowo, nawet je\u015b\u00adli nie dosta\u00adj\u0119 nic w zami\u00adan? B\u0105d\u017a\u00admy szc\u00adzer\u00adzy: czy nie wszyscy ocze\u00adku\u00adje\u00admy cze\u00adgo\u015b w zami\u00adan? A je\u015b\u00adli to tyl\u00adko \u201cja te\u017c ci\u0119 kocham\u201d? Dlac\u00adze\u00adgo wi\u0119c ta for\u00adma mi\u0142o\u015bci w og\u00f3\u00adle ist\u00adnie\u00adje, sko\u00adro nikt nie wyda\u00adje si\u0119 by\u0107 w sta\u00adnie jej spe\u0142\u00adni\u0107? Ponie\u00adwa\u017c jest kto\u015b, kto jest przy\u00adk\u0142a\u00addem tej mi\u0142o\u015bci. I ta oso\u00adba poka\u00adzu\u00adje nam sw\u00f3j <strong>sekret<\/strong>, jak mo\u017ce\u00admy kocha\u0107 tak jak ona. We wpi\u00adsie na blogu<a href=\"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/darf-ich-vorstellen\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"924\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u201cMi\u0142o\u015b\u0107 we w\u0142as\u00adnej oso\u00adbie<\/a>\u201d mo\u017cesz dowied\u00adzie\u0107 si\u0119 wi\u0119cej o tej oso\u00adbie i wiel\u00adkim sek\u00adre\u00adcie, kt\u00f3ry si\u0119 za ni\u0105 kry\u00adje.          <\/p>\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Odpo\u00adwie\u00add\u017a na to pyta\u00adnie brz\u00admi jed\u00adnoz\u00adnacz\u00adnie \u201ctak\u201d. Tak i nie. Wszyst\u00adko zale\u017cy od tego, o jakiej for\u00admie mi\u0142o\u015bci m\u00f3wi\u00admy. Nau\u00adkow\u00adcy odkry\u00adli, \u017ce ist\u00adnie\u00adje 14 rod\u00adza\u00adj\u00f3w mi\u0142o\u015bci. Jed\u00adnym z nich jest \u201cEros\u201d. Ten typ wywo\u0142u\u00adje motyle w brzu\u00adchu i uwal\u00adnia ogrom\u00adne ilo\u015bci hor\u00admon\u00f3w szc\u00adz\u0119\u015bcia. Czu\u00adjesz to, gdy spo\u00adty\u00adka\u00adsz wyj\u0105t\u00adko\u00adw\u0105 oso\u00adb\u0119, do kt\u00f3\u00adrej czu\u00adjesz poci\u0105g. Kie\u00addy was\u00adze [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":5116,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[98],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5114","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-wpis-na-blogu"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5114","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5114"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5114\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5118,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5114\/revisions\/5118"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5116"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5114"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5114"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/pl\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5114"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}