{"id":5434,"date":"2025-01-16T16:29:05","date_gmt":"2025-01-16T15:29:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/lamour-est-il-un-choix\/"},"modified":"2026-05-09T13:58:42","modified_gmt":"2026-05-09T11:58:42","slug":"lamour-est-il-un-choix","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/fr\/lamour-est-il-un-choix\/","title":{"rendered":"L\u2019amour est-il un choix ?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>La r\u00e9pon\u00adse \u00e0 cet\u00adte ques\u00adti\u00adon est un \u201coui\u201d cat\u00e9\u00adgo\u00adri\u00adque. Oui et non. Tout d\u00e9pend de quel\u00adle for\u00adme d\u2019a\u00admour nous par\u00adlons. Les sci\u00aden\u00adti\u00adfi\u00adques ont d\u00e9cou\u00advert qu\u2019il exis\u00adte 14 types d\u2019a\u00admour. L\u2019un d\u2019ent\u00adre eux est \u201cEros\u201d. Ce type d\u2019<strong>amour<\/strong> fait na\u00eet\u00adre des papil\u00adlons dans le vent\u00adre et lib\u00e8\u00adre une gran\u00adde quan\u00adti\u00adt\u00e9 d\u2019<strong>hor\u00admo\u00adnes du bon\u00adheur<\/strong>. Vous le res\u00adsen\u00adtez lors\u00adque vous ren\u00adcont\u00adrez une per\u00adson\u00adne sp\u00e9\u00adcia\u00adle qui vous atti\u00adre. Lors\u00adque les regards se croi\u00adsent, l\u2019air cr\u00e9\u00adpi\u00adte. Chaque <strong>cont\u00adact<\/strong> est com\u00adme une peti\u00adte <strong>d\u00e9char\u00adge \u00e9lec\u00adtri\u00adque<\/strong> dont le sou\u00adve\u00adnir per\u00addu\u00adre long\u00adtemps. Mais cet\u00adte for\u00adme d\u2019a\u00admour a moins \u00e0 voir avec une d\u00e9cis\u00adi\u00adon. Sauf, bien s\u00fbr, la d\u00e9cis\u00adi\u00adon de vou\u00adloir ren\u00adcon\u00adtrer la per\u00adson\u00adne le plus sou\u00advent pos\u00adsi\u00adble ou de recher\u00adcher sa pro\u00adxi\u00admi\u00adt\u00e9 ; )          <\/p>\n\n<p>Une ami\u00adti\u00e9 soli\u00adde avec cet\u00adte per\u00adson\u00adne est le deu\u00adxi\u00e8\u00adme type d\u2019a\u00admour : \u201cStor\u00adge\u201d. Ce type d\u2019a\u00admi\u00adti\u00e9 est davan\u00adta\u00adge li\u00e9 \u00e0 une d\u00e9cis\u00adi\u00adon. Dans une ami\u00adti\u00e9, les deux per\u00adson\u00adnes d\u00e9ci\u00addent de pas\u00adser <strong>du temps<\/strong> ensem\u00adble, de par\u00adta\u00adger la glace, le cho\u00adco\u00adlat ou m\u00eame <strong>la vie<\/strong>. Ensem\u00adble, ils par\u00adtent \u00e0 <strong>l\u2019a\u00adven\u00adture<\/strong> ou, du moins, la regar\u00addent ensem\u00adble au cin\u00e9\u00adma. Mais ces ami\u00adti\u00e9s pro\u00adfon\u00addes sont mal\u00adheu\u00adreu\u00adse\u00adment deve\u00adnues rares \u00e0 not\u00adre \u00e9po\u00adque. Vous vou\u00adlez savoir ce qu\u2019est une tel\u00adle ami\u00adti\u00e9 ou com\u00adment l\u2019ob\u00adte\u00adnir ? <a href=\"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/fr\/9-conseils-pour-de-bonnes-amities\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"2167\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Vous le d\u00e9cou\u00advr\u00adi\u00adrez ici<\/a>.     <\/p>\n\n<p>Mais il exis\u00adte une for\u00adme d\u2019a\u00admour bien plus pro\u00adfon\u00adde, dont les fon\u00adde\u00adments repo\u00adsent pro\u00adfon\u00add\u00e9\u00adment sur une d\u00e9cis\u00adi\u00adon : Aimer une aut\u00adre per\u00adson\u00adne de mani\u00e8\u00adre <strong>tota\u00adle\u00adment d\u00e9vou\u00e9e<\/strong> et d\u00e9sin\u00adt\u00e9\u00adres\u00ads\u00e9e, sans rien attendre d\u2019el\u00adle en retour. Oui, et m\u00eame plus : se sacri\u00adfier pour elle, m\u00eame si cela impli\u00adque des incon\u00adv\u00e9\u00adni\u00adents. Le nom de cet\u00adte for\u00adme d\u2019a\u00admour est \u201cagap\u00e8\u201d. Je vous l\u2019ac\u00adcor\u00adde : Ce n\u2019est pas vrai\u00adment mon point fort. Aimer quel\u00adqu\u2019un jus\u00adte com\u00adme \u00e7a et inves\u00adtir enco\u00adre et enco\u00adre dans cet\u00adte per\u00adson\u00adne alors que je ne re\u00e7ois rien en retour ? Soyons hon\u00adn\u00eates : n\u2019at\u00adten\u00addons-nous pas tous une for\u00adme de retour ? Et si c\u2019est jus\u00adte un \u201cje t\u2019ai\u00adme aus\u00adsi\u201d ? Alors pour\u00adquoi cet\u00adte for\u00adme d\u2019a\u00admour exis\u00adte-t-elle si per\u00adson\u00adne ne sem\u00adble pou\u00advoir la satis\u00adfai\u00adre ? Par\u00adce qu\u2019il y a quel\u00adqu\u2019un qui a don\u00adn\u00e9 l\u2019exemp\u00adle de cet amour. Et cet\u00adte per\u00adson\u00adne nous mont\u00adre son <strong>secret<\/strong> pour que nous puis\u00adsi\u00adons nous aus\u00adsi aimer com\u00adme elle. Dans l\u2019ar\u00adtic\u00adle de blog \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/darf-ich-vorstellen\/\" data-type=\"post\" data-id=\"924\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">L\u2019a\u00admour en per\u00adson\u00adne<\/a>\u201d, vous en app\u00adrend\u00adrez plus sur cet\u00adte per\u00adson\u00adne et sur le grand secret qui se cache der\u00adri\u00e8\u00adre elle.          <\/p>\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>La r\u00e9pon\u00adse \u00e0 cet\u00adte ques\u00adti\u00adon est un \u201coui\u201d cat\u00e9\u00adgo\u00adri\u00adque. Oui et non. Tout d\u00e9pend de quel\u00adle for\u00adme d\u2019a\u00admour nous par\u00adlons. Les sci\u00aden\u00adti\u00adfi\u00adques ont d\u00e9cou\u00advert qu\u2019il exis\u00adte 14 types d\u2019a\u00admour. L\u2019un d\u2019ent\u00adre eux est \u201cEros\u201d. Ce type d\u2019amour fait na\u00eet\u00adre des papil\u00adlons dans le vent\u00adre et lib\u00e8\u00adre une gran\u00adde quan\u00adti\u00adt\u00e9 d\u2019hor\u00admo\u00adnes du bon\u00adheur. Vous le res\u00adsen\u00adtez [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":5435,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[119],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5434","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-article-de-blog"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5434","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5434"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5434\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5436,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5434\/revisions\/5436"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5435"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5434"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5434"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5434"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}