{"id":3330,"date":"2025-01-16T16:31:59","date_gmt":"2025-01-16T15:31:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/9-tips-for-good-friendships\/"},"modified":"2025-09-21T16:57:37","modified_gmt":"2025-09-21T14:57:37","slug":"9-tips-for-good-friendships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/en\/9-tips-for-good-friendships\/","title":{"rendered":"9 tips for good friendships"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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\u201cIf you have good fri\u00adends<\/strong>, you don\u2019t<\/strong>need a mir\u00adror<\/strong>\u201d I once read on the mir\u00adror in a bath\u00adroom. I think this say\u00ading real\u00adly has some\u00adthing to it. And tha\u00adt\u2019s why I wish ever\u00adyo\u00adne would stop nee\u00adding a mir\u00adror to see them\u00adsel\u00adves. Can I ask you how many clo\u00adse fri\u00adends you have? I\u2019m not tal\u00adking about the fri\u00adends you can go par\u00adty\u00ading with, but tho\u00adse with whom you share your most per\u00adso\u00adnal expe\u00adri\u00aden\u00adces and deepest fee\u00adlings and thoughts. Ide\u00adal\u00adly, this appli\u00ades to three peo\u00adp\u00adle<\/strong>, reve\u00adals psy\u00adcho\u00adthe\u00adra\u00adpist Wolf\u00adgang Kr\u00fc\u00adger. The\u00adse clo\u00adse fri\u00adends also have the man\u00adda\u00adte to speak into your life and ques\u00adti\u00adon things. They also show you the \u201cblind spots\u201d, i.e. the things in your own per\u00adso\u00adna\u00adli\u00adty that remain hid\u00adden. Inci\u00adden\u00adtal\u00adly, this feed\u00adback real\u00adly helps you to grow in your own per\u00adso\u00adna\u00adli\u00adty and deve\u00adlop fur\u00adther. <\/p>\n\n

Unfort\u00adu\u00adna\u00adte\u00adly, the\u00adse fri\u00adends are very rare. But how do you get the\u00adse clo\u00adse fri\u00adend\u00adships, the\u00adse bud\u00addies with whom you can go through thick and thin<\/strong> and who put up with you even when you\u2019\u00adre not in a good mood? Clo\u00adse fri\u00adends are not a pro\u00adduct of chan\u00adce, but also have a lot to do with your beha\u00advi\u00ador. Here are 9 tips for good fri\u00adend\u00adships: <\/p>\n\n

1) Do you allow peo\u00adp\u00adle you have cho\u00adsen<\/strong> to look into<\/strong> your life? Are you able to open up to the per\u00adson? It\u2019s real\u00adly bra\u00adve to take the first step and share your inner thoughts. For exam\u00adp\u00adle, if you\u2019\u00adre not fee\u00adling so well at the moment, don\u2019t pre\u00adtend that ever\u00ady\u00adthing is fine, but honest\u00adly admit that some\u00adthing is wrong. Expe\u00adri\u00adence has shown that this also helps the other per\u00adson to open up bit by bit and tell you about them\u00adsel\u00adves. <\/p>\n\n

2) Do you give cer\u00adtain fri\u00adends the man\u00adda\u00adte to speak into <\/strong>your life? In other words, do you allow them to cri\u00adti\u00adci\u00adze you and ques\u00adti\u00adon your actions? This can some\u00adti\u00admes hurt a lot, but it\u2019s real\u00adly hel\u00adpful. It does\u00adn\u2019t mean that you have to imple\u00adment ever\u00ady\u00adthing, but you should at least check and keep the good things (this is also a pie\u00adce of wis\u00addom from the Bible<\/a>, by the way). <\/p>\n\n

3) Do you ask cer\u00adtain fri\u00adends for their honest opi\u00adni\u00adon<\/strong> and are you gra\u00adteful for it, even if they don\u2019t tell you what to say?<\/p>\n\n

4) Are you pre\u00adpared to make sacri\u00adfices<\/strong> for the other per\u00adson and to be the\u00adre for them when they need your help?<\/p>\n\n

5) Are you genui\u00adne\u00adly inte\u00adres\u00adted <\/strong>in the other per\u00adson and do you lis\u00adten to them<\/strong>? Admit\u00adted\u00adly: Lis\u00adtening is often not so easy for me. <\/p>\n\n

6) Are you wil\u00adling to for\u00adgi\u00adve your boyfriend\/girlfriend if he\/she has hurt <\/strong>you?<\/p>\n\n

7) Do you ask for for\u00adgi\u00adve\u00adness<\/strong> yours\u00adelf when you\u2019\u00adve mes\u00adsed up or do you try to cover up your mista\u00adkes? It is often not easy for us to ask for for\u00adgi\u00adve\u00adness, but we rea\u00adli\u00adze that when we do so, we don\u2019t lose an inch of our crown, but rather gain ano\u00adther inch.
By the way: If you have expe\u00adri\u00aden\u00adced the for\u00adgi\u00adve\u00adness of Jesus in your life, then it will also be easier for you to for\u00adgi\u00adve others and the gre\u00adat thing is: Jesus will help you if you ask him to.<\/p>\n\n

8) Are you pre\u00adpared to share the shirt off<\/strong> your back with others or do they only get the shirts you have out\u00adgrown? In other words: gene\u00adro\u00adsi\u00adty <\/strong>is a sign of true fri\u00adend\u00adship. <\/p>\n\n

9) The\u00adre are cer\u00adtain\u00adly many more things that will help you on your way to real\u00adly good fri\u00adend\u00adships. But the most important thing is: try to be a best fri\u00adend yours\u00adelf. Good luck with that! <\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cIf you have good fri\u00adends, you don\u2019tneed a mir\u00adror\u201d I once read on the mir\u00adror in a bath\u00adroom. I think this say\u00ading real\u00adly has some\u00adthing to it. And tha\u00adt\u2019s why I wish ever\u00adyo\u00adne would stop nee\u00adding a mir\u00adror to see them\u00adsel\u00adves. Can I ask you how many clo\u00adse fri\u00adends you have? I\u2019m not tal\u00adking about [\u2026]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2170,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"wp_typography_post_enhancements_disabled":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[38],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3330","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog-post"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3330","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3330"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3330\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3331,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3330\/revisions\/3331"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2170"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3330"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3330"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jeliebt.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3330"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}